The Misunderstanding

When I listen to comments online…especially by men, I see a misunderstanding.  Many believe Will Smith is pissed that she was screwing another guy.  Many are saying he should get rid of her because she was screwing around with another dude.  WRONG.  All of you are forgetting one thing:

 

They have pretty much said they are in an open relationship!

 

Her screwing the young boy isn’t the problem.  The problem is:

 

  1. She crossed the line by screwing her son’s friend.  A friend that the son brought home because he had some issues.  Out of all the men in the world, you had to screw your son’s friend?  If Will would have done that to Willow Smith, he would have been canceled by his daughter and the industry!
  2. She was screwing the young boy in his house and other properties.
  3. She’s sloppy with her personal business. This isn’t the first time that her personal affairs have gotten out.  Remember the Marc Anthony issue?  She was messing around with Marc Anthony, and it got so “Known” that Will had to shut shit down.  As a matter of fact, she was the reason Jennifer Lopez filed for divorce on Marc Anthony.  Jada’s name even came up in Jennifer Lopez’s divorce.  Several women have told me their problem with Jada is that she moves sloppy and makes her husband look stupid.  They have told me that women don’t move like that…unless they are careless or just don’t give a damn anymore to get caught.  And many women believe she doesn’t care.  It is obvious that Will has had flings, but he never makes his wife and family look stupid.  He always is protective of his wife and families’ reputation.   

 

This is why Will Smith is stressed out.  He’s had to carry a lot of shit lately.  A lot of runny shit with corn and peas in it.  And most of his drama is coming from his wife’s show The Red Table and their previous openness about their open lifestyle.  And this could have been the catalyst for his attack on Chris Rock!

 

 

Should he be disciplined?

YES!  You’re damn right he should be disciplined.  And he should be disciplined severely.  Why should he be disciplined?  Because they have to reestablish discipline.  Not disciplining Will Smith sets a precedent that it’s ok to physically attack comics and people on stage because you can’t take a joke. 

If you allow Will’s behavior to go unchecked, people will begin to act violently towards comics and speakers.  Already, there have been two physical altercations this past weekend.  This is because of Will Smith’s actions.  He has to be disciplined severely. 

How would you discipline a mega wealthy actor who is worth hundreds of millions of dollars?  Several of my co-workers gave some good points.

  •     He has to pay a heavy fine that will hurt his pockets.  He should have to pay a fine of tens of millions of dollars to the Academy Awards. 
  •     The Academy should also make him pay tens of millions of dollars to Chris Rock as an atonement fee.
  •     He should be put on some type of probation by the state for assaulting someone.
  •     He should be forced to take an anger management class.
  •     He should be suspended from the Academy for a few years.
  •     He should be black balled from Hollywood for a couple of years as discipline.
  •     His family should also feel the impact for his actions …business wise. 
  •     The award should be taken from him.
  •     And he has to earn the trust of his peers again for disrespecting the craft.

 

These are some of the ideas I’ve heard certain people in my circle bring up.

 

 

 Conclusion

In conclusion, the image that Will Smith took over 20 years to craft has been tarnished.  He became emotional and did something very unmanly.  He attacked a man that was at least 40 pounds smaller than himself on live tv!  Plus, he attacked him for something that was harmless. A man would have handled it off-camera because he understands there is a time and place for everything.   My personal opinion is that he will bounce back from this.  It will take years, but he will bounce back.  He has to make things right with Chris and the public.  And I believe he will make things right.  He is a good guy, but he made a major mistake. 

 

I believe he’s a good guy, but if I was him, I’d drop the dead weight.  And by dead weight, I mean Jada Pinkett.  He deserves better. He can do better.  But he has to believe that he can do better.  She never loved him like he loved her.  Furthermore, he loved the idea of marriage more than she did.  So she really doesn’t give a damn.  There are plenty of women who have the same ideals as him.  That desire that he has (for marriage and building a good family) is so common in women; it’s just that Jada never had it.  He fell in love with the idea and beauty of Jada, but he never looked inside her spirit to see if they were on the same accord.  And they weren’t.

 

A man first has to come into an understanding of what his mission is.  In other words, what he was born to fulfill.  Only then does he understand what qualities that a woman must have to qualify to be his wife.  The woman was created by the Most High to be his helpmeet.  To help meet (attain) his vision.  And when you understand that, you can clearly see that Jada wasn’t the one for him.  His life is a lesson for all of us.  

 

The End.

 

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