Intro
Many older people complain about social media. Hell, even the government wants to shut down TikTok. They say that China is using it to dumb down or corrupt American citizens. But as a matter of fact, my big sister agreed with me recently—it is a wonderful tool for attaining knowledge in any aspect of life.
Being that my life’s work is dedicated to cultivating the world of males into the foundation of humanity-A man, I spend most of my time studying or attaining information dealing with our reality! For instance, I love seeing guys on the street ask women random questions about their personal lives or the expectations they have about men dating them. It’s fascinating because it lets you into the minds of women in certain age groups and eras. Some things have bothered my colleagues and me so much that I will probably write about them and give a Virdoe perspective on them.
The video
A little while ago, I saw a young lady go live on one of her social media platforms to voice her complaint in real-time. The video was labeled:
First date: She refused to get out of the car because he took her to The Cheesecake Factory
We will show the entire encounter as well as transcribe the video:
Video
Transcription
Female: He got me at The Cheesecake Factory, y’all. I ain’t getting out of this car…
(Note: She looks at the window on her side of the vehicle and waves her index finger toward her date.)
(He knocks on the window.)
Female: Yes?
Guy: Ahhhh, you want me to open the door for you?
(She moves the camera to show the gentleman. He then realizes she’s recording.)
Guy: You’re recording me?
Female: Yeah. Yeah. This is The Cheesecake Factory. This is The Cheesecake Factory, y’all.
Guy: What’s wrong with that?
Female: This is a chain restaurant. Who takes someone that looks like this to a chain restaurant?
Guy: You want to talk about it? I’m fine with talking about it.
Female: Oh yeah, I want to talk about it. Come on and get up in the car. We’re going to talk about it.
(He gets into the car.)
Female: Yes. Let’s talk about it.
Guy: So you expect a man to all out on the first date? Is that right?
Female: I mean, you’re supposed to. I mean, look at me. When you take out a beautiful woman…aha (slight laugh as she fixes her braids in front of the phone camera) and you’re courting her. Because I get courted. So you’re courting her, right? You’re supposed to take care of her. You’re supposed to cover her, protect her, cherish her, treat her well. That’s what you’re supposed to do…
Guy: Yeah. I agree. I brought you to this date…with the expectation for myself to keep you safe, to respect you, to pay for your food of course, pick you up, and just treat you like a gentleman. Which I believe I have done.
Female: Cheesecake Factory…
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Female: We could still get to know each other. Is there another restaurant that you can call that equivalent?…I know you don’t understand…Look at me. I cannot go in The Cheesecake Factory.
Guy: There’s nothing wrong.
Female: I will die. That’s embarrassing.
Guy: I have certain expectations. I can tell it’s not going to be there. And maybe we’re not right for each other. So actually, I’m going to drop you off at home.
Female (her mouth open): Soooooo you want to call it a night? I mean, isn’t there some kind of compromise or something? Ladies, can you believe this?
Guy: I’m sorry, y’all (talking to the audience too). If I don’t feel respected, I’m not going to go with you for the rest of the date.
Could it be fake?
At first, I was surprised…but then again, I wasn’t. I wasn’t surprised because lately, in social media interviews on the street, when young ladies were asked, “How much do you expect a man to spend on you on the first date?”, they expected anywhere from $200 to $1,000 for the first date. They expected four-star restaurants. Often, for some reason, these types of women were in Miami or California. I’m originally from Miami, and I don’t remember women like this. They expected you to pay heavily for their time. This is what I’ve been seeing online for the last couple of years, specifically during the Covid era (2020-2023). So hearing this was hilarious…but sad.
I talked to many of my male and female family members and friends and saw Instagram channel responses on the situation as well as the woman’s recent response (informing us that there would be an interview on a famous manosphere page to discuss the situation). To me, it smells like a staged event.
Why? What would be the intent of staging this? To build her brand. Her face is out there now. She can capitalize on the buzz she created with this staged act. If she works it right, she and the guy can introduce their businesses to the world, build their brands, and sell their products. You don’t believe me? Remember this girl named Kim Kardashian? She finessed $200 million with no talent. She sparked the Kardashian empire’s recent multiple-decade rise with just a sex tape. Many say that it was her mother who architected all of the family’s moves. All of those Kardashian women have no talent…just enhanced bodies with some cuteness, and they finessed a whole empire. Anyone wanting to break ground on social media should study the Kardashian family! But I digress.
My girl…
After seeing this video, I sent it to my girl and some of my guys. My girl immediately asked me what I would have done. I said I would’ve probably:
- Processed what just happened.
- Acknowledged to myself that this was a red flag.
- Smiled.
- Replied, “You know what? You are so right. What was I thinking?” (i.e., “I apologize for that one.”)
- Gotten back in the car, smiled at her, and started driving. I’d have taken her dumb ass right back to her house…because I’m a gentleman. I would’ve opened the car door for her, walked her to her door, and left her there. And that would be it. I’d never call her again and I wouldn’t answer her calls. Move on to the next. Once you see the flags, act accordingly!
I then told her my philosophy concerning this. She partly agreed, and then explained the reason why she disagreed on the other half. We agreed to disagree on the second half. I might bring it up later.
I appreciate her, though
Even though this piece of shit had the nerve to say what she said, I appreciate her. She saved me so much time and money. What do I mean? Let me explain.
It’s a saying that many times, when you date someone, you’re meeting their representative. The guys usually only want to smash, while the females want to eat, or are looking for someone to entertain them, or are in marriage mode.
She knows what you want, so she’ll string you along to get what she wants out of it: free meals, your money, or your attention. After a while, you still get no ass. Hundreds wasted. And you’re not the only one wasting on her.
Let’s not forget our bullshit. Stringing her along, wasting her time…forgetting to tell her that there are others…and breaking her heart.
So her honesty cuts out the waste for a lot of men, who were taught how to deal with these kinds of brats.
To be continued…
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