Did you know?

Before we go a degree further in our conversation, I still suspect that some of you still haven’t accepted the fact that you should wear some kind of scent.  Let me ask you a question.  Are you aware that women’s senses are more acute than mens?  

Colors.Haven’t you ever noticed that your mother, sister and the women in your life tend to have a better understanding of color and matching colors together than most men?  Hell, I had to study a color wheel for it all to make sense, and it was all women who guided me on how to do this.  Two were fashion designers, one was a part-time director of fashion runways in Newyork, and one was a model.  And before that, when I was married, my wife would have to dress her brother and myself.  Colors never made sense to us.  Well, study after study, they found women to have a better understanding of colors and their subtleties.  

Hearing/Noises.  Haven’t you ever noticed that the women in your life usually complain about your loud music?  Do you know why?  Women are more sensitive to sounds than men.  Thye hear everything.  Why?  I’ll get to that later.  

Touch.  Are you aware that females have a finer sense of touch than men on average too?  In the Journal of Neuroscience they stated that smaller fingers have a finer sense of touch.  And sense women tend to have smaller fingers than men, this may give them that gift.  

Taste.  Are you also aware that women have a more sensitive palate than men also?  Research at Yale University found that women have approximately 35$% more taste buds on their tongues than men?  Furthermore, Do you know that women of childbearing years can taste flavors more intensely than younger and older women who are not in their child bearing years?  Why?

Smell.  I said all of that to get to this.  Do you know that women’s sense of smell is more sensitive and detailed?  In fact, just recently, scientists have found that women have 43% more cells and almost 50% more neurons in the olfactory sensors than men!  43% more!

It gets deeper, In an article named, “the smell Report” it is said, “It is known that female sensitivity to male pheromones (scneted sex hormones), for exmaple, is 10,000 times stronger during ovulation than during menstruation….hearing are more acute around ovulation…”

Why?

The question is why?  I may have an answer for you.  I have one word for you.  You’re ready for that one word?  Here we go:

Features

Features?  Yes.  Let me explain.  The late great Pastor, Dr. Myles Munroe explained God’s methodology to His creation one day.  In a lecture, he said that when God decides that he wants to create something, He first starts with a desire for it to fulfill a purpose.  Then based on that purpose, God designs that thing with FEATURES to fulfill its assignment successfully!  He even physiologically designs it  to incline towards its assignment.  He also psychologically gives it features to fulfill the assignment for which it was made.  Furthermore, when that thing is not fulfilling the purpose for which it was created, it is now sinning.  

Spiritually speaking, the woman was created to:

  • Give birth
  • To be a helpmeet
  • Provide comfort

Because she was designed to be a mother, the Creator gave her features to be a mother to a being that can’t communicate yet.  So she’s given intuition, sense of smell, acute hearing to hear the baby breathe, etc.  She’s given all of these features to take care of a baby and…to find the right suitor.  Those features are used to monitor us!  

Sidenote…I must say this to any of you that may be thinking this…she’s not only born to be pregnant.  Yes she’s born to be a mother…but she’s also born to give birth intellectually.  Hse’s also born to be a helpmeet…Help you meet (accomplish) the mission…your dominion assignment that each one of us was born to fulfill.  More on that later.  

So does she have an acute sense of smell?  Yes.  So if she does, doesn’t it make sense to wear cologne to attract women (if you’re single) or continue to attract your wife? The answer is yes! I hope we’re done with this part of the discussion.  Now back to our discussion.

Styles……

In my 20 years of observation, I’ve found that when it comes to colognes, there are basically five types of guys.  They are as follows:

  1. Mr. Vanilla
  2. Mr. Signature scent
  3. Mr. 3 Bottles
  4. Mr. Seasons
  5. Mr. Flow

1)Mr. Vanilla

Mr. Vanilla, doesn’t care about “cologne” stuff.  He’s wrapped into whatever he’s wrapped into, and he just doesn’t give a dam about that stuff.  Now in that world, you have the Cowboy/rough guy type who may believe that colognes are for girly men.  He doesn;t wear the stuff.  He believes that his natural scent is enough.  

As I said before, Mr. Vanilla is usually wrapped up into whatever he’s wrapped up into: computers, electronics, writing, teaching, etc.  He just doesn’t care about the stuff nor does he understand the stuff.  Usually, once he gets the woman in his life, she will purchase him colognes and even buy him clothing because he knows nothing.  He doesn’t even realize that the reason why he never really got girls was because he never understood that presentation and the way he smelled (wearing a cologne) was a big part of the hunting process.  In other words, if he was another male species, he would have never reproduced himself because he didn;t know how to “catch” the opposite sex.  He doesn’t know how to “handsomize” himself.  So he goes through life alone most of the time until a woman sees potential in him and approaches him…because usually, he doesn’t even know how to approach women.  But if he does know, he can;t close the deal because he’s…vanilla!  

There are women out here who are just as vanilla as he is.  They work in your office building.  And the first time they beautify themselves, all the men in the office wonder whose the new girl?  Only to realize that it was the plain Jane femela who was in their office all this time.  And you know what?  SHe usually changes because she wants to get noticed like the other females in her office.  She wants to net be treated like one of the guys by the guys.  Or she wants this guy, but he doesn’t “see” her.  He doesn’t “see” her because she never placed any effort in making herself presentable.  Well many of us guys do the same thing.  And those kind of guys tend to never get the girl and they don;t know why.  Because You’re Vanilla!  Remember…I became this when I got married.  I was vanilla.  I didn;t care about anything but being a good husband.  SHe had to dress me and buy me cologne because I had become clueless.  If you are single…or even have a wife, to keep her attention, I suggest you grow out of this.  But if you are happy with the Vanilla lifestyle….then hey, good for you!  But why are you reading this?  Just a thought…..

To be continued…

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The Cologne Game pt. 3