“I was just thinking about you. Wondering if you (still) wear the same cologne? (It) smelled good…on you. Had, the next boyfriend of mine, tried that same kind…but it stunk on him though. You know what they say, everything ain’t for everybody. But I tried anyway. You sure did smell good.” – Jill Scott (song: Cross My Mind)

Did You Catch It?

I adore this song. It manifests the minds of some women concerning relationships and the difficulty they sometimes have emotionally and physically separating themselves from those relationships. 

Concerning the above quote, do you understand what she subtly did to the new guy in her life? She bought the cologne that her previous guy wore and got her new man to wear it. In other words, she wanted to remember her last man by having her new man wear his cologne. However, she immediately realized that the cologne didn’t smell the same on her new guy. She told her old guy this. But did she tell her recent/current guy, too? The answer is probably…not. How many of you started dating a girl, and she soon bought a cologne that she wanted you to wear? There might be a reason why she wanted you to wear that cologne. Just a thought. But I digress…why didn’t it smell the same on the other guy if it was the same cologne? Why? This will be explained in the series. But for now, let me tell you a story…

The Scent Did That To Her Nipples?

A friend of mine called me one day and told me about something that happened to him. Every morning, he passed a woman coming off a train that he was entering. She was over six feet tall and drop-dead gorgeous. He’s about 5’9. Anyway, they crossed each other’s path about three or four times. Eventually, he decided to break the ice and go after her, but she beat him to the punch. That day, she finally said something to him. After the third or fourth encounter, she stopped him and boldly said:

“That scent you’re wearing…when you wear it and I pass by you…it makes my nipples hard.”

When he told me this, I damn near dropped my phone! I said to him, “What did she say to you?” He repeated the same statement. I asked him, “What’s the name of the scent?” For those who are curious, the NAME of the cologne is… 

Rochas cologne. 

 

What was even funnier was that, as he said the name of the cologne, I was simultaneously ordering it! But you know what? I never got the same response from my wife at the time, or any other woman, for that matter! That was when I began to understand that different colognes work for certain people and not for others. The cologne didn’t stink on me. My woman thought it was nice…and other women thought it was nice. However, it didn’t get the response that my guy got. (Side note: He did get her number and they had a great “relationship”! All from that damn cologne!)

Now, do I have colognes that make women go crazy when I wear them? YES, YES, YES. Two colognes come to mind. I personally don’t like them, as they are too flowery for my taste. BUT when I wear them, women come on strong. One, in particular, makes women sexually forward when I wear it! Will it do the same thing for you? Maybe, maybe not. You just have to find the one that gets girls sexually aroused toward you. 

Pulling women doesn’t have to be expensive

I have two colognes that women just love and they are vocally forward about it. Recently, I was walking down the hallway at work when a lady behind me yelled, “Is that you wearing that scent that smells so good?” I looked around and saw no one else down the hallway, so I said, “It probably is.” She said that it smelled wonderful. That was the second or third time I’d received a compliment about that particular cologne. And it isn’t one of my expensive colognes! It’s my third-string cologne, the one I wear to work and other places. Women from different age groups are all attracted to that scent! More on age groups later. 

I have another one that I bought from Marshalls to throw in my gym bag. It cost twenty dollars. I swear, when I wear it, I get approached in the grocery store by women of all ages! 

Trader Joe’s

About eight years ago, I was on my way to a meeting and was wearing my black suit and a fedora. I stopped by Trader Joe’s to pick something up. As I attempted to pull something off an aisle, an older woman walked up to me. She got my attention and then apologized for bothering me. She said that the cologne that I was wearing smelled soooo good that she had to ask what it was. She said she wanted to buy it for her husband. When this happened, I finally realized that women loved this particular cologne!

Even my guys at work and gentlemen in passing inquired about the scent so that they could purchase it. They couldn’t believe that I purchased it for pennies at Marshalls! Unfortunately, the scent has been discontinued! That scent that women loved and the fellas continually asked about is a Tommy Bahama cologne. More on discontinued colognes later!

 

Warning: Before we go any further, I have to give a warning to all men: This will not work if you don’t wash your ass on a daily basis. You can’t hide your muskiness with cologne. You just smell like ass doused with cologne. Take showers daily. And use deodorants. Trust me, it doesn’t work. Wash your ass!

Conclusion

Lesson #1: Not all scents will work on you. What works for another person probably won’t work for you. You have to find your own scent. The cologne has to mesh with your body chemistry. That’s why it worked for my friend and not for me. 

Lesson #2: If you are approached on several occasions by the opposite sex about the scent that you’re wearing, then it works for you. That’s the one for you.

Lesson #3: Different scents can attract different age groups. Certain scents can even attract different ethnic groups. Other scents can attract all age groups of women. (So, plan accordingly depending on what you’re going after.)

Lesson #4: Some scents can make women attracted to you. Some colognes can make women sexually aggressive toward you. Some colognes just smell great and inspire everyone to give you compliments. It just matters what you’re trying to do. 

Lesson #5: Great-smelling colognes don’t have to cost an arm and a leg. 

To Be Continued…

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